Have you ever walked around feeling “off,” but couldn’t quite put your finger on what was wrong? Sometimes our bodies speak through silent symptoms. We may not have a fever or a cough, but something just isn’t right. In the same way, our souls send signals when we’re not living in alignment with the assignment […]
Tag: Calling
What If You Said Yes?
In her bestselling memoir Year of Yes, television powerhouse Shonda Rhimes, creator of Grey’s Anatomy and Scandal, reveals how a single question from her sister unleashed a year of transformation. At the height of her career, Rhimes was a self-confessed “no-sayer,” shying away from invitations to parties, new speaking gigs, even candid conversations. Then one […]
God Called You Anyway
Somewhere along the way, you decided that God couldn’t possibly use you. Not after the choices you made. Not after the detour your life took. Not after the divorce… the addiction… the abortion… the shame. You look at your past and disqualify yourself from the very thing God already called you to do. But here’s […]
From People-Pleasing To Purpose
Have you ever put your dreams on the back burner because you didn’t want to disappoint others? You say “yes” when your heart is screaming “no.” You prioritize everyone else’s needs, convinced that making others happy is the right thing to do. But deep down, you feel the weight of frustration, exhaustion, and the nagging […]
Scared? Take the Leap Anyway
I remember a conversation I had with a friend several years ago. We were both dreaming out loud, sharing the goals we wanted to accomplish in our lives. As we advised each other on the best steps to take, she shared something that has stuck with me ever since. She said, “Someone once told me, […]
Sometimes The Pit Is Where You Need To Be
“Listen to this dream,” he said. “We were out in the field, tying up bundles of grain. Suddenly my bundle stood up, and your bundles all gathered around and bowed low before mine!” His brothers responded, “So you think you will be our king, do you? Do you actually think you will reign over us?” And […]
Am I The Only One Who Needs To Pivot?
If you’ve been in my community for a while, you know that I love to plan. And doing my beginning of the year planning is something I look forward to every year. This has been the case for as long as I can remember. So, in December 2023, I set aside time to prepare for […]
Discovering Your God-Given Path
Let me begin with a story about a former client of mine, Lisa. Lisa was like many of us, living a life that appeared successful on the outside. So, she had this good job, a loving family, and a supportive church community. But deep inside, she felt a sense of emptiness and restlessness. She knew […]
Does Your Calling Scare You?
When I find myself discussing calling with women, the conversations generally fall into one of two categories. First, are the women who have no clue what their calling is and want me to help them identify it. The other category is made up of women who know what their calling is but for one reason […]
Are You Pushed By Pain Or Pulled By Passion?
As a coach and speaker, I often share the story of how I decided when I was twelve years old to become a lawyer one day. Everything I did from that point on had to help me in achieving that goal. I took college prep classes in high school, chose my college major based on […]